My Book
My recently published book on my own journey through the transgender experience–and the extraordinary things I unexpectedly learned in the process, can help you to transcend for yourself the suffering and confusion of being transgender. You don't need to live a life of pain, or feel like something went terribly wrong with your life.You can find peace and joy as the truly beautiful person you came to Earth to be.
Text From the Back Cover:
During the decades that I struggled with gender dysphoria, I felt so broken that I literally saw myself as a collection of pieces that didn't add up to a whole person. I transitioned from male to female because I had accepted the narrative that changing genders would put me back together. In reality, my transition left me in pieces in another way–pieces of male and pieces of female. That's how it is for every transgender individual who transitions in any degree–pieces of male and pieces of female.
Wholeness, however, is something completely different. Putting ourselves back together isn't something we do by becoming someone else. That's what transition attempts to do, though changing genders only happens at a superficial level, and transition does untold harm in the process. Wholeness comes when we heal from the experience of feeling broken in the first place. I bought into the belief that transition was the only way to fix me and save my life. I no longer believe that as I now know differently.
There was another path I could have taken—one I didn’t know about at the time—one that would have brought me the peace I sought without the pain, upheaval, calamity, and damage that came with transition. I found that path to healing and joy when I discovered the real cause of being transgender. I was shocked to discover that the reason I had felt in the wrong body was not at all the reason I thought it was.
I realize now that my life was never broken, and I wasn’t born in the wrong body after all. In fact, my life was a beautiful thing from the very beginning, and I just couldn’t see it. I had gotten the whole thing wrong. I don’t believe that you are broken either—not for a minute. There’s a big push in our world for people with gender dysphoria to transition. Nowhere near as much effort is focused on healing and becoming whole. Maybe you are one who has experienced the pressure to transition. Maybe you’d just like to heal instead. You can.
I now understand that my gender transition was completely unnecessary. All the pain, loss, destruction, shattered relationships, unspeakable financial impact, and devastated lives didn’t need to happen. If I had known back then what I know now, I could have lived a happy, perfectly fulfilled life of peace and joy—in the one place I never thought I could find it—in the body of my birth.
And you can too. What I learned is in these pages and is now my gift to you.
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* Free Workbook – Taking Your Journey Beyond the Book *
If you wish to continue beyond the pages of the book, taking the topics presented more deeply into your life, I offer a complimentary 65-page companion workbook for taking the teachings of the book into your own experience. Simply click on the Adobe icon below to download the file. You can then personalize the journey and make the teachings of the book come alive with your own thoughts, feelings, and inspirations.
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